3 Habits for a Healthy Relationship to Rekindle Your Love, Increase Fulfillment, and Never Think About Divorce
Relationships are like a rollercoaster—up and down every day.
Love today, frustration tomorrow. Despite lots of advice, happiness and longevity in a relationship can feel hard to catch.
I'm no pro, but I've talked with relationship experts on my podcast and sat with married couples to hear their love secrets. I've also been happily together with my girl for two years.
I stumbled upon three keys that unlock the secrets to lasting love.
Never Stop Dating
Make Each other Laugh
Communicate Effectively
Never Stop Dating
Most couples forget the magic that happens when they first start dating.
Life soon becomes a series of motions, from the kitchen to the couch, and boredom sneaks in.
Couples quit because they’re tired of boredom and need some excitement in their life. That is why some cheat because it is scandalous and reviving.
The key to this is simple: never stop dating.
Revive the Romance
Schedule regular date nights and infuse them with creativity.
Don't just settle for the usual dinner-and-a-movie routine. Instead, curate exciting and romantic experiences that breathe new life into your relationship.
Go play frisbee and mess around at a park
Go on a long hike and jump into a river
Try an exotic restaurant
Rent a hotel for the night and dance the evening away.
The result? A revitalized connection that feels almost like a new romance.
Schedule the Love
The key is to make time for each other.
Schedule date nights and make them a non-negotiable part of your routine.
Plan the details, surprise each other, and let the excitement of a planned date bring back that initial spark.
If you’re really busy, schedule sex and even plan out what you want to do to each other. Talk about excitement.
So, remember, never stop dating, and you'll never stop loving each other.
Make Each Other Laugh
Ever seen a couple who looks like they haven't cracked a smile in years?
Life gets serious, and laughter seems to disappear from the relationship.
But here's the deal
If you can still share a laugh with your partner, you're onto something special.
To love life is to love laughter.
Making your significant other giggle is a surefire way to ease tension, create bonding experiences, and foster a positive atmosphere.
So, go ahead, tell that corny joke, share those funny stories, and keep the laughter alive.
Once they see you are trying, they’ll try with you.
Communicate Effectively
Listening is the glue that holds everything together.
Setting aside time for meaningful conversations is as crucial as planning date nights.
Whether it's a structured talk or an impromptu heart-to-heart, it's essential.
Judge-Free Zone
The key to effective communication? Create a judgment-free zone.
Be transparent, vulnerable, and open about your thoughts and feelings.
Address issues promptly, ensuring they don't accumulate into relationship roadblocks.
Half the time, relationships crumble due to unresolved petty conflicts.
Never go to bed mad at each other.
I know that sounds impossible but try a little each day. Even whisper sorry if you have to.
Understanding and Loving Each Other
So, make communication a priority.
Go to bed not just understanding each other but loving each other more. It's about building a foundation of trust, transparency, and vulnerability.
Never stop dating, keep the laughter alive, and communicate effectively.
You're well on your way to a relationship that stands the test of time.
With Love,
Jack