5 Lessons to Embrace Imposter Syndrome on Your Journey to Personal Growth
Become a Dreamchaser...
When I began my self-improvement journey, I had no clue.
I’m just a college kid
Who was a hotshot DJ, then out of nowhere God appears.
Now I share health and wellness information on a blog??
I felt like I had no credibility whatsoever.
Turns out, it's a common experience.
Almost every person venturing into their own development faces the same insecurities:
- Feeling like an imposter
- Lack of confidence
- Fears of inadequacy
- Chasing others' expertise
- Wondering, "Do I have what it takes?"
In a strange twist, this self-doubt propels them forward, too.
So, here's some reassuring news:
I've never encountered a person without imposter syndrome.
There's nothing to feel like an imposter about when you're just starting.
So, if you're experiencing it?
Embrace it.
Trying something new=growth
You don’t have to hold on. Liberate yourself
You're probably on the right track in helping others improve.
And it's okay to have concerns.
Here is how I know:
Fear of Failure:
It's natural to fear failure when stepping into uncharted territories.
We are human.
Uncharted territory usually means saber tooth tiger.
Not anymore
Shoutout our ancestors who wrestled with them all.
Badass
Understand that mistakes are part of the learning process, not a sign of incompetence.
If you fail, you grow, and it’s way better than where your at now.
Comparison to Others:
Constantly comparing yourself to a bunch of randos can be overwhelming.
I swear I wanted to be this one DJ SOO badly.
Then I realized he’s a chronic alcoholic.
Total bs
You have skills that they don't, embrace that within yourself.
Time to look at the positives in YOUR life. No one else
Remember, everyone started somewhere, and your unique perspective is your strength.
Overthinking:
Analysis paralysis is common in the early stages.
Don't let overthinking hinder your progress; take small steps and adjust as needed.
Everyone has to start somewhere, and your brain will hate you for it. It’s used to comfort and loathe the idea of being somewhere else.
Embrace it.
Tell the little computer in your head it’s alright.
Thank me later
Embrace how much of something you don’t know and learn a little more each day.
That’s all we got.
Balancing Perfectionism:
Striving for perfection is like an elephant striving to be a chihuahua
Complete and utter BS
Chasing perfection is telling yourself that whatever you’re at isn’t good enough, and although that may be true, that doesn’t lead to growth.
What leads to growth is recognizing what you don’t know and taking steps to understand a LITTLE more, not being perfect. Just a little bit more.
If I wanted to be the ultimate health expert I would have to go to medical school, read a bunch of anatomy and biology, and probably ACE the MCAT.
Boring
I’m going to be the best version of myself.
No one else.
Recognize that imperfections make you human and relatable.
Impatience with Progress:
Feeling like you should be further along in your journey is common.
Celebrate small victories. This journey takes time
Every step counts.
Rosa Parks' refusal to give up her bus seat in the Montgomery Bus Boycott (1955-1956) catalyzed a year-long collective effort.
This small act of resistance led to a U.S. Supreme Court ruling against racial segregation on buses, a crucial victory in the Civil Rights Movement.
Next thing you know, you are where you want to be.
Just keep going.
Be ready for your moment.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jack